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mushroom isabel's avatar

As someone who grew up wanting to major in English but ended up majoring in STEM, I think I have some insights on this.

I started college in 2015. At the time, there was (and perhaps there still is) a massive push for "women in STEM". Couple that with the fact that humanities majors earned mockery from other students on my college campus, with majors such as English being derided as "easy" and for "stupid people" who "can't do STEM", to me, at 18 years old, being seen as a progressive, intelligent STEMinist was preferable to being just another "dumb" humanities major.

Aiding in the fight to crush the glass ceiling, while also being seen as one of the smart ones, despite the fact that I had zero math or science inclinations or interests, was a sure way to gain acceptance amongst my peers.

And then there's the familial pressure - as a first-generation college student from a family of immigrants, the pressure to "think big" and make a big six-figure income was incredibly overwhelming.

In the end, rather than majoring in the humanities, which would have been a more natural fit for me, I willingly bent my aspirations to fit societal and familial expectations, earning two STEM degrees - one in earth science, and the other in computer science. My family and friends, who were concerned about the possibility of my majoring in the humanities, took a sigh of relief when I switched to STEM, and I was praised for going "in the right direction".

To be sure, STEM has been rewarding. With STEM, there is less risk - the career path for a computer science major versus an English major, for instance, is far clearer, and the roadmap to a six-figure salary is a bit less bumpy. Furthermore, as a person in a STEM career, but especially as a woman in a STEM career, you tend to get a bit more respect - the humanities are just not as respected as STEM these days (which is extremely unfortunate). People are always impressed when they hear I can code but are far less interested when they hear I love to read, write, and create art.

While I don't necessarily regret going into STEM, I do sometimes wonder how things would have turned out if I had been a bit more confident and assertive, proudly studying the humanities rather than shrinking from it in fear that I'd be seen as stupid, or not feminist enough, or not thinking big enough. And I wonder if other young, malleable college students who might be more humanities-oriented have experienced the same as me - the overwhelming cultural pressure to change themselves to fit into a box that perhaps isn't the best fit.

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Gavin William Wright's avatar

Gutted. Genuinely thought this was going to be an essay about the demise of the standard literary character - the stuffy old, ex-military English 'Major'!

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